i was sitting here pondering the idea of us spending a little time together. you know, just the two of us. kind of like a date, but we do not have to call it thus if it makes you feel uncomfortable. we can call it anything else. i understand you do not really appreciate labels & commitment is difficult for you.
so if you are willing, let’s try this. we can begin slow. we can begin with chatting. i feel as if you have something important to say. i promise to listen, as i have been working on my listening skills the last few years.
if we decide this is really a thing, like we are on the same page, then i was thinking we could move into doing a little dreaming together. perhaps look at the bigger picture, something more long term. i will understand if this not really working for you & you wish to go our separate ways. however, this is not my preference.
i have been admiring you from afar for a while now. my hesitance is based on fear, of course, but i am trying to walk through it. so, if you will be patient, i promise to give you my best, be committed & show up for you.
thank you for listening. i really hope this thing works out. i think i love you.